I know I haven’t posted anything in a while, but a recent comment on my last post (Which was a while ago) prompted me to respond. I started writing it as a response comment, but decided move it over and just create a whole new post.
I appreciate the people who have taken the time to post your perspectives. In reference to the last comment (At this point in time anyway) I definitely agree that women are not ‘baby-making factories’ and should not treat themselves as such (And unfortunately putting our money into policies and programs isn’t solving much of anything in many cases, let alone abortion-the root issues are whole lot deeper…but maybe that’s another post =D).
Here’s the thing for me. There seems to be a huge blind-spot in our society (North America) regarding the issue of abortion, which special interest groups have been looking to cultivate through media and a myriad of other avenues for quite some time now. The blind-spot or deception says this: A baby human being is not really a baby human being, until it has left the confines of his/her mother’s womb.
I was watching a great movie the other day, called “Amazing Grace”. It is a dvd you should be able to pick-up at any block-buster (or Rogers Video as well if you live in Canada). The movie is based on the true story of a young politician who lived in the late 18th and early 19th century, who gave his life see the abolishment of the slave-trade in the English Empire.
The deception I saw surrounding many 17th and 18th century white anglo-saxons, regarding the obvious equality and humanity of the black race reminded me of the deception I see today.
Why do some only call a child-in-the-womb “my baby” if they want the child, but if they don’t want the child, all of sudden they describe him/her as “the fetus”?
Life begins at conception, therefore from that point forward there is a responsibility on the man and the woman to serve and protect that life-that child, as any good parent does.
What gets me is the hypocrisy of my society (Canada) in regards to partial-birth abortion (Which by the way, is one of the first things Obamahas promised to institute, if he is elected). Partial-birth abortion allows a baby to be killed in the womb right into the 9th month of pregnancy!! It is not a typo! You read that correctly!!

Cassandra somewhere between 1 and 2 years old.
Now consider this…I have an adopted baby-sister right now(She is just about to turn 4 years old now). She was born pre-mature at the age of 6 months, at which point her twin died; but with the doctors and child-services going the extra mile and a strong will to live, Cassandra is now a healthy growing little girl.
The astounding and horrific thought is that, while surgeons and nurses were working over-time in hopes of saving her sickly and fragile little life, in the very next room over there may have been a strong and healthy 6 month old baby (or older), being brutally murdered (I don’t mean to be insensitive, but I have to call a spade a spade). Does that make any sense at all??
I mean, it is absolutely rediculousto me, that a baby has virtually no human-rights at all (at least in Canada), up until they exit the birthcanal, at which point they “become human”. Literally, you could be in your eighthor ninth monthof pregnancy and decide to set up an appointment for an abortion. On the way to the appointment your water breaks and you go into labor. You can’t get to the abortion clinic quick enough, so the baby is born. You still don’t want the child so you stop the car and go find a trash can. You are caught in the act, and tomorrow your face is on the front page of every newspaper in the country as the most heartless, irresponsible, selfish person of the year-possibly the decade!! You walk down the street and people look at you with disdain and disgust, like you’re a monster!
…WAIT A MINUTE!!! Do you see what I see?? Isn’t that lady, the same lady who was just on her way to dispose of the child anyways?? So what’s the difference?? The difference a little word called deception.
The other thing I don’t get, is when people bring up all these exceptional-case situations, as if they are the norm, like ”What if you find out the child is seriously handi-capped”, or “What if the mother doesn’t have means by which to care for the child?”, or “What if the child is a product of rape?” These are great questions, but for many people even by asking these questions they have revealed that they are often walking under the same deception that I have been talking about.
What do I mean?
While, let’s change the circumstances and see which questions would still be considered socially acceptable questions. The child is no longer in the womb, but was actually 3 day-old new-born, born 3 months pre-mature. Now which of those questions is a socially acceptable question when we are talking about new-born baby?
I understand there are some people reading who have had or been involved in having an abortion. Please understand, my heart is not to be judgemental towards you, but my harshness is more towards the issues that exist in our society, especially the mass-deception that has been often preciprocated by our government, health system, and various forms of media. I personally know people who have had abortions, so please hear my heart. I am by no way trying to minimalize the pressure and life-changing implications of raising and providing for a child, I am just saying that abortion should be considered no more of an option than the mother who leaves her baby in the dumpster, in the cold stairwell in the middle of the winter.
So what is the solution? I humbly suggest adoption. There are thousands of couples who dream of raising a family, but do not have the ability to produce children. If you find yourself in a situation where you are not able to take care of the child that is on the way, bless them with the opportunity to live out their God-given destiny. Bless a heart-broken couple with the opportunity have a family. Why not?
(In my next post I will actually be sharing a video with statistics showing that the babies are not the only victims of an abortion…)
Sincerely,
Joel D. Witton
